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The Atlantic: What It Takes to Make Fashion Blogging Look Effortless.

Pro-bloggers, we learned, must continually reconcile a series of competing demands: They have to appear authentic but also remain on brand, stay creative while tracking metrics, and satisfy both their readers and the retail brands that bankroll them. Many work up to 100 hours a week, and the flood of new bloggers means companies increasingly expect to not have to pay for partnerships. Meanwhile, the nature of the job requires obscuring the hard work and discipline that goes into crafting the perfect persona online.” This niche is another I’ve been following, along with ‘mommyblogging’. The investment in ‘brand’, faux-personas, is astonishing. I hope psychologists are looking at this, too. Esp. the folks who can project multiple faux-personas in virtual sphere, while maintaining a separate reality.

09/28/15 • 02:43 PM • InternetPsychologySocial MediaWeblogs • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

The Atlantic: When Schools Overlook Introverts - Why Quiet Time is Important for the Learning Proces

Important. In our world of helicopter parents and planned childhoods, I stand shocked. I could never have been the person I am, if I wasn’t able to lie with my back on the grass for hours and stare at the clouds. BY MYSELF.

09/28/15 • 02:20 PM • ChildhoodPsychologyScholarly • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

JSTOR Daily: “Let the Traumatic Image Haunt Us”.

Perhaps — and I’ve expressed my unease with this before — the trick is to *not* send professional photographers to cover crises. The proverbial ‘straight photograph’ elicited the reaction here. A famed photographer would have tried to frame the little body artistically, finding a graphical beauty in the tragedy. As it was, the snapshot was enough.

For instance, I love a rusty wrecked vehicle as much as the next artful photographer. But what happened to the gas and oil, leached away into the ground to disturb our water-tables, the rubber degrading and offgassing ... what does it really represent? And repeated so many millions of times over our land.

09/21/15 • 02:05 PM • ArtsBooksHistoryHuman RightsPhotographyPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

In These Times: Why Walking Down a Dark Alley at 2 A.M. Is Not ‘Asking For It’.

If we get assaulted while walking alone in the dark, we’re told we should have used our heads and anticipated the danger. [snip] But if we’re honest about the amount of mental real estate we devote to anticipating danger, then we’re told we’re acting like crazy man-haters, jumping at shadows and tarring an entire gender with the brush that rightly belongs to a relatively small number of criminals.

09/21/15 • 09:22 AM • HistoryHuman RightsLawPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

ABQ Journal: It’s a cover-up! Hot tub high jinks prompt change in clothing-optional policy.

I do recall a friend telling me many years ago of a visiting friend who went to the communal tub, was blissfully soaking away her cares, only to have a man approach and ask, “May I touch?” Well, at least he was polite enough to ask. But still. Creepy.” Having lived here for so long, one hears all sorts of stories about that tub.

09/21/15 • 08:17 AM • HealthPsychologySanta Fe Local • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

The Atlantic: The Impact of Microaggressions and Why They Matter.

Using a person’s preferred or desired gender pronouns (such as the gender neutral ‘they’ instead of she or he) is not a meaningless exercise in identity politics—it is an acknowledgement of a person’s innermost identity, conferring both respect and dignity.” Navigating the emerging ‘microaggression’ meme is damned tricky. Those in college right now have the upperhand, learning it as reflex.

09/18/15 • 12:10 PM • GeneralHome & LivingPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Guardian.UK: Kim Cattrall’s nearly 60 – what can she teach me?

Cattrall replied that she considers that after 50 you live your life ‘on the balcony’. By which she meant that you are so self-aware that you’re able to look down on yourself and your life as if it were all happening to someone else. So you make better decisions and live a happier life.

09/16/15 • 01:28 PM • EntertainmentGeneralHealthPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

PS Mag: Why Are People Looting Clear Lake?

Methamphetamine addicts are more or less ideally suited to looting archaeological sites.” Jeez. In the UK, all you have to worry about is pensioners with metal detectors. Here, we get crazed youths with rotting teeth digging in the middens. No wonder zombie-themed armaments are popular.

09/16/15 • 12:18 PM • HealthHistoryPsychologyScience • (5) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Guardian.UK: Serena Williams’ US Open loss does not tarnish an awe-inspiring year.

Should we not celebrate Roberta Vinci’s performance, than craft encomiums for Ms Williams loss? Do we no longer root for underdogs?

09/12/15 • 02:23 PM • PsychologySports • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Aeon: Is there anything wrong with men who cry?

But actually, the gender gap in crying seems to be a recent development. Historical and literary evidence suggests that, in the past, not only did men cry in public, but no one saw it as feminine or shameful. In fact, male weeping was regarded as normal in almost every part of the world for most of recorded history.

09/11/15 • 09:37 AM • HistoryPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

NY Times: Jennifer Lawrence Has No Appetite for Playing Fame Games.

You want to know how I’ve changed? I’m so scared to say anything now.” Our cultural hypersensitivity is viral.

09/09/15 • 11:32 AM • EntertainmentPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Pacific Standard: Conviction of Things Not Seen: The Uniquely American Myth of Satanic Cults.

The period of nationwide moral hysteria that came to be known as the Satanic Panic began in 1980 with the publication of Michelle Remembers, a biographical account of the repressed memories of the childhood ritual abuse ...” I can stop right there. The insinuation of ‘regression hypnosis’ tells you everything you need to know. Move on.

09/09/15 • 09:22 AM • BooksChildhoodHistoryPsychologyReligion • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Center for Politics/Sabato’s Crystal Ball: The Populist Revolt against Brain-Dead Politics.

Hilarious observation: “The public often feels isolated and cut out of the loop by the powerful, yet if the voluble Biden ever concocts any secret insider plan, odds are the plan won’t stay secret for long.” Maybe Biden is the perfect candidate to counter a GOP-official Trump.

09/03/15 • 10:06 AM • PoliticsPsychology • (1) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

TechDirt: Moral Panics And How ‘The Kids These Days’ Adapt.

We lived most of our college lives on Snapchat — now we don’t have any ‘tangible’ memories.

08/31/15 • 06:21 PM • ChildhoodHistoryPsychologySocial MediaWeblogs • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Guardian.UK: Is it justifiable to show footage of people being killed?

Depends on how its framed, IMHO. Characterising the Flanagan video as resembling a ‘first person shooter’ game got me very uneasy. I saw a five year old rack an unattended 9mm Beretta like an old pro - parents were alarmed also. How many guns/shootings do kids see by that age? Not so much ‘what are we doing’ as ‘what are we allowing to happen’ with our culture?

08/29/15 • 02:52 PM • GeneralNewsPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Petapixel: When Photography Becomes a Weapon.

... in the 21st century, photographs of an atrocity don’t wait to give rise to opposing responses. They are created and distributed with an intent to harm and polarize. The weaponization of photography is a partial reflection of a modern culture that is willing to consume and interpret imagery without analysis or concern for who might be victimized by the image.

08/28/15 • 10:43 AM • Human RightsPhotographyPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Atlantic: Modafinil Really Is a ‘Smart Drug,’ Study Says.

Where’ve you been? Prozac started the ‘work-doping’ trend. The perceived ‘mood brightener’ became a must-take for salespeople in the 90’s.

08/27/15 • 10:38 AM • ConsumptionHealthPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

99U: Escaping the Time-Scarcity Trap.

Instead of saying, ‘I don’t have time to work on my novel,’ try saying, ‘My writing isn’t a priority’ out loud and see how that feels.

08/27/15 • 10:22 AM • ArtsBooksPsychologyWeblogs • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

WTKR: Roanoke reporter, photographer killed by shooter during live news interview.

Horrible. The perpetrator shot them down with no more consideration than a worker in an abbatoir. The frequency of shootings seems to be increasing.

08/26/15 • 01:24 PM • GeneralHealthPoliticsPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

New Republic: The Politics of the Curation Craze.

One simple explanation is prestige appropriation.” I had to look that one up on Google ... prestige appropriation ... nope, not a thing. I think you’ve just witnessed the birth of a new online buzzphrase. I visualize a young, secretly-destitute toy-boy dating the rich older widow ...

08/26/15 • 10:57 AM • InternetPsychologyWeblogs • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

NY Times: Where Clicks Reign, Audience Is King.

Undigested comments that people might have made to colleagues or friends but later thought better of are now written down as journalism, and ‘get indexed and archived in the same way as a serious news story.’” Important read o’ the day. Don’t miss it. Muchos gracias, All About George on FB.

08/16/15 • 08:28 PM • InternetNewsPsychologyScienceSocial MediaWeblogs • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

The Atlantic: How Trigger Warnings Are Hurting Mental Health on Campus.

During the 2014–15 school year, for instance, the deans and department chairs at the 10 University of California system schools were presented by administrators at faculty leader-training sessions with examples of microaggressions. The list of offensive statements included: ‘America is the land of opportunity’ and ‘I believe the most qualified person should get the job.’” Sounds psychotic.

Later: There’s even a website for microaggressions; what one might playfully call a ‘niggardly* view of microaggression’. Then again, even Christopher Hitchens dropped the term ‘niggardly’ because of widespread misunderstanding of the term. It interfered with comprehension by raising too many hackles - even though it was used legitimately.

I have to laugh, Wikipedia on ‘microaggression theory’: Psychologist and Columbia University professor Derald Wing Sue defines microaggressions as “brief, everyday exchanges that send denigrating messages to certain individuals because of their group membership.” I assume that word was pointedly chosen? The term ‘denigrating’ is, of course, built upon ‘niger’, Latin for ‘blacken’. Followup on how others perceive ‘denigrate’ in StackExchange.

I have a difficult time disassociating intent from aggression. Every definition I come across implies intentional harm of another. Yet microaggression is trying to divorce itself from intent, in order to throw a wider net. If we are all microaggressors, as current theory seems to indicate ... do we all just shut up? Institutionalized victimhood and guilt, at the same time? The history that we read, the classical canon, everything is filled with what would be termed ‘microaggressions’ today. Do we close down schools? Do we stop reading the past? All this seems to be doing is guaranteeing ‘microaggression detectives’ employment into perpetuity. Realistic, pragmatic bars must be set. Because someone says something, doesn’t confirm that they mean it. Four years of liberal arts school used to inoculate against this kind of thing, once upon a time.

When my stuttering returns, as it occasionally does, microaggression (as I understand it) occurs. People get impatient and put words in my mouth, I can see some think ‘handicapped’ or ‘mentally challenged’, etc. etc. There were times in the past where I found those microaggressions depressing. I don’t anymore, because without direct experience in being a stutterer, a non-stutterer will never understand the malady. Never. So microaggression for me, is something I will have to live with. And for the most part, I just ignore it. Because someone behaves ‘microaggressively’, it doesn’t preclude empathy. So when my stutter returns, I can be frustrated with myself, but I’m almost never offended by others. I do my best to help them help me communicate clearly. Basically, I grew up and refused the self-definition of ‘victim’ that so many others seem to want to press around my ears. I’m a survivor, and damned proud of it.

*‘Niggard’ is from Old Norse, meaning ‘excessively concerned over small matters’, and has no racial or color connotations, though many find it offensive because it sounds similar to the common epithet. Given that, be careful who’s around when you’re trying to restore data on a dying drive, muttering ‘miserable bits’ under your breath.

08/16/15 • 09:28 AM • ChildhoodPsychologyScholarly • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

NPR: Are Americans Indifferent To Art?

Comparing the audience of ‘Tut’ to ‘Motorcycle’ is a bit lame. I would posit very different audiences.

The ‘experience’ observation is a true one, I deem. Folks come to Santa Fe in droves for the periodic special markets (Folk Art Market, Spanish Market, Indian Market), and remain a steady stream for the ‘regular’ tourist sights and sounds. We are a Southwestern Disneyworld, with no rides and a background of colorful and expensive artworks ... but history and differing cultures come to life during our markets. Those are the real ‘experience’ times, and prove to be increasingly popular.

I’ve told the story about ‘art appreciation’ before; affluent retirees come here in their huge RVs, pull on the walking shorts, knee-high socks, official Reebok ‘walking sneakers’ ... and set out to ‘do Canyon Road.’ They then proceed to walk through every gallery as fast as they possibly can, looking at every piece of art for a couple of seconds. This is not ‘doing’ Canyon, nor is this taking in any art, except by osmosis. There are so many styles, so many eras ... this osmosis cannot do more than color one’s grey matter for a day, or at most a week, and then it is gone. All that is left is the memory of the slog up one-way Canyon, in the heat of the day, looking for public bathrooms the City should have provided decades ago.

Then there are the affluent retirees who have second homes here, who are merely looking for something to color-coordinate with their other furnishings, and impress summer or winter guests with. The ladies dig in the shops, the men stand outside and fiddle with their smartphones. You see men in gaggles all over town, bored spitless. Or hunchback with camera in hand, pack containing tens of thousands of dollars of equipment, taking the same shots a million others have taken ... with their Nikon D810’s set on “Program Auto”.

Finally, the 1%. The true art collectors and art lovers. They pass through the schools of tourists like sharks, finding that one piece, and then suddenly biting hard to get the best price.

What of the young? They’re struggling to find a foothold in this town. Our new mayor has made them a marketing target, but Santa Fe has some issues. Little nightlife; most of our sidewalks roll up at 9PM, even on weekends. Our Catholic Hispanic population is deeply uneasy over the hedonistic practices of the modern young. Our outdoors pursuits require above-average physical fitness (we’re at 7500 feet, most trails start at 9,000, even young visitors need a couple of days to acclimate). Young families find very few things for small children to do [try selling history and fine art to an 8-year-old], and restaurants tend to be child-unfriendly. Kids need to run around.

New Mexico has been pushing outdoor beauties hard, but the fitness thing is the biggest hurdle. I remember a young couple on the Aspen Vista trail, not more than a half-mile from the trailhead, lying on a bank with two rental MTBs, panting, emptying their [only] water bottles, worn out from altitude and lack of fitness. I think Angel Fire’s done the best. They’ve put in various summer downhill sports on their ski slopes, and run the ski lift (so visitors don’t have to hike uphill). But again, that approaches Disneyworld/Amusement Park sort of lengths.

Much as I don’t want the quaint nature of town to change, if we want more tourism, if we want our amazing selection of art to be appreciated (and purchased), we need to address our ‘experience’ deficit. A little mud on the walls is no longer enough. For children, for the 20-somethings, for the grossly obese who are becoming more and more common (we are a town of very narrow sidewalks and doorways).

Santa Fe, throughout history, has always been a bit slow at adapting, but eventually arrives in style. We’ll manage these new challenges later than sooner ... successfully.

08/15/15 • 10:52 AM • ArtsPersonalPsychologySanta Fe Local • (2) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

Buffer Blog: Why Facebook Is Blue - The Science of Colors in Marketing.

Oh gawd, I hate this crap. For good reason - back in the 00’s, I had more than one client come to me and ask for all-magenta sites (the go-to color for having visitors shell out cash, supposedly). I think my magenta rods (or cones) are shot as a result.

08/14/15 • 07:41 PM • DesignProgrammingPsychology • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks

PS Mag: Read—Don’t Just Talk—to Your Kids.

What might be a bit more surprising: Picture books have, on average, around 70 percent more unique words than conversations directed at kids ...

08/13/15 • 10:30 AM • ArtsBooksChildhoodPsychologyScholarly • (0) Comments • (0) Trackbacks
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